Sacrifice

Third part of this series on sacrifice and submission: Today we discuss sacrifice. Sacrifice is not a popular term in today’s culture. Life in our culture tends to be about me; making me happy and fulfilling me – even in the Christian church! This is not the life taught by Jesus Christ. He taught what He lived out in His life on earth; a life of sacrifice, of giving, of serving, and of dying to self and putting others first. Christ sacrificed everything for us! He left the comfort and bliss of Heaven to enter into a sinful, dark, horrible world, walked the dusty, dirty roads of Judea enduring the scorn of the very people He came to save and then allowed Himself to be tried, derided and hung on a cross for our sins. That my friends, is sacrifice!

Christians are urged to offer our bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God (Romans 12:1). They are told to imitate God – loving as much as Christ loved and gave Himself up for us as a sacrifice (Ephesians 5:1-2). Christ is our model and we are to sacrifice ourselves and serve others, putting others first. It is not easy to do, but when we sacrifice, it is an incredible testimony to our Lord. The early church knew this well! People did not become Christians lightly in the first centuries of Christianity. People knew it would cost them in prestige and often monetarily, and it might even cost their life. We have lost this focus of sacrifice as a way of life.

While all Christians are to sacrifice, men are especially called to sacrifice themselves for their wives. Ephesians 5:25 states; “Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her.” Not only did Christ die on the cross for the church, but we must remember that He also chose to leave the glory of Heaven and live as a human for 30 years knowing He was going to the cross. Men likewise are to sacrifice for their wives. They are to die to self and give themselves for their wives. Not abdicating leadership, but serving their wives, taking care of their wives, being concerned for their wives, seeking to meet their wives’ needs. If Christian husbands did just these three things, there would be some serious changes in marriages throughout the church.